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Kissed

Love can leave you cold.

Lynne Stopkewich

RomanceDrama

Already released · Theatrical Sep 7, 1996 (CA)

Programme
TIFF Classics
Year
1996
Runtime
78 min
Country
Canada
Language
English
TMDB rating
6.4 (86 votes)
In cinemas
Sep 7, 1996 (CA)

Over the years, a child's romantic ideals about death blossom into necrophilia, the study of embalming and the most profound relationship of her life.

From the TIFF programme

World Premiere of 4K restoration! Initially a controversial outlier, Lynne Stopkewich’s singular debut Kissed (TIFF ’96) is a subversive, tender drama about sexual awakening that shares the same ethereal atmosphere as erotic Canadian classics David Cronenberg’s Crash (1996) and Atom Egoyan’s Exotica (1994).

In a breakout role that won her a Genie Award, Molly Parker plays Sandra, a young woman who becomes enraptured by the sensory experience of death. As a child, Sandra performs rituals in the woods, giving dead animals a sacred burial and examining their lifeless bodies with a trace-like focus. This lifelong fascination leads Sandra to study as an embalmer at a mortuary school, where her feelings about death develop into necrophilia. She describes the act as “crossing over,” straddling the realm between the living and the dead as she reaches a newfound sexual satisfaction with the cadavers. A fellow student, Matt (Peter Outerbridge), becomes obsessed with Sandra and her sexual preferences, projecting his own selfish desires onto her while desperately attempting to seduce her so he too can be treated like one of her deceased lovers.

On its original VHS release trailer, Lynne Stopkewich’s film is described as being at the “bizarre intersection of desire, sex, and death.” While the subject matter appears taboo at first blush, Kissed subverts expectations, shaping Sandra's sexuality through her struggles with intimacy. She longs for a kind of safety and satisfaction that no living person can give her. Sandra yearns to lose herself completely without the fear of being hurt. The film strikes a profound balance between reality and fantasy with Sandra fumbling towards ecstasy, as the Sarah McLachlan song featured in the film suggests.

TIFF is honoured to bring Kissed back to the Festival in a new 4K restoration from Canadian International Pictures 30 years after its World Premiere.

ROBYN CITIZEN

Kissed was restored in 4K by Canadian International Pictures from the original 16mm A/B camera negatives and master mix magnetic soundtrack.

Content advisory: suicide, nudity, sexual content, scenes of surgery

In cinemas

  1. Sep 7, 1996TheatricalCanada
  2. Oct 23, 1996TheatricalUnited States
  3. Nov 20, 1997TheatricalGermany
  4. Jan 9, 1998TheatricalUnited Kingdom

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Credits

Screenplay
Angus Fraser, Lynne Stopkewich
Producers
Dean English, Lynne Stopkewich
Cinematography
Gregory Middleton
Editor
John Pozer, Peter Roeck, Lynne Stopkewich
Original Score
Don MacDonald
Canadian Distributor
Canadian International Pictures
US Distributor
Canadian International Pictures
International Sales
Ultimate Media Group

Production

Boneyard Film Company Inc.British Columbia FilmCanada Council for the Arts

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